"Spiritual relationship is far more precious than physical. Physical relationship divorced from spiritual is body without soul". - Mahatma Gandhi
"You don't develop courage by being happy in your relationships everyday. You develop it by surviving difficult times and challenging adversity". - Epicurus
"You don't develop courage by being happy in your relationships everyday. You develop it by surviving difficult times and challenging adversity". - Epicurus
Most mental health providers assist the patient(s) with the process of gaining interpersonal awareness, but do not specialize in both the emotional and physical aspects of intimacy. Alternatively, most intimacy coaches do not specialize in the psychodynamic underpinnings of human attachment and resulting relational dynamics. I offer a safe, non-judgmental, and confidential environment that allows couples or individuals to address issues, questions, and concerns pertaining to sexuality, intimacy, and relationships. My therapeutic modalities include (but are not limited to): Psychodynamic, Solution Focused Brief Therapy, and Mindfulness Based Cognitive Therapy depending upon the unique needs of the patient(s) and/or the desired outcome.
|
|
As seen above in the photo excerpts from the movie, Hope Springs (2012), the process of building (or rebuilding) an intimate relationship can be difficult and challenging. However, it is my personal experience that the outcome can be life altering in a very positive way. It is my honor & privilege to gently guide you through this journey.
Goals of Intimacy Counseling can include*:
*Disclaimer: Professional psychotherapy never includes sex. It also never includes verbal sexual advances or any other kind of sexual contact or behavior. Sexual contact of any kind between a therapist and a patient is unethical and illegal in the state of California. Please visit the Department of Consumer Affairs website for more information.
Goals of Intimacy Counseling can include*:
- Increasing your sense of personal worth & self esteem
- Learning how your Attachment Style impacts your relationships
- Learning to become in tune with your own body & sexuality
- Learning how to safely & effectively communicate with your partner your specific wants & needs both emotionally & physically
- Learning the spectrum of intimacy including: emotional, intellectual, spiritual, physical, & sexual
- Learning the subjective meaning of foreplay from both a male/female perspective
- Learning the psychosomatic connection between physical intimacy and overall wellness
- Overcoming sexual shame and guilt
- Learning that sex & spirituality are NOT mutually exclusive
- Creating freedom & a safe place to enjoy your sexuality
- Healing past sexual traumas & learning how trauma affects both the victim & their partner
- Expanding your emotional & physical capacity for pleasure
- Connecting more deeply with your partner
- Learning how to give & receive pleasure and loving touch
- Learning to stay present in states of arousal
- Exploring fantasy play with your partner in a safe & trusting manner
- Resolving barriers to intimacy such as: emotional and/or physical infidelity; aging issues; children (Oh how we love them!); busy schedules, lack of effective communication, etc...
- Resolving specific sexual dysfunctions (i.e. difficulty with orgasms, low sexual desire, sexual arousal disorders, sexual pain disorders, ejaculation issues, difficulty achieving erection, multiple symptoms related to PFS)
*Disclaimer: Professional psychotherapy never includes sex. It also never includes verbal sexual advances or any other kind of sexual contact or behavior. Sexual contact of any kind between a therapist and a patient is unethical and illegal in the state of California. Please visit the Department of Consumer Affairs website for more information.